Once you decide you’re done pretending everything is good enough in your world, you’re ready to move past the first stage of emotional healing. No one would consciously choose to stay in stage one. It’s meant to draw your attention to something you’d rather forget. As resourceful as it is at finding distractions, your brain keeps reminding your that your pain is real. It’s up to you to commit to the healing process — even though it exacerbates the pain for a while....

Thankfully, there’s a few philosophers out there who have found a way to approach the grim and yawn-inducing world of philosophy in a way that’s playful, satirical, and funny. The heroes rarely get the credit they deserve. They’re shuffled off to the side, considered humor writers instead of philosophers, and their words get discounted as comic relief. We thought it was high time to give them their due. Each of the below books is thought-inspiring, but approaches the love of learning via ways that are actually enjoyable to read....

If you look back often enough, with a discerning eye and an open heart, you can often self-correct along the way. Or at the very least, you can learn from your screw-ups and become a bit wiser and stronger in other areas of your life. You probably know from your own life experiences that mistakes are painful but very useful ways of learning about yourself. However, there are some life mistakes, that if avoided in the first place, will save you a whole load of heartache and misdirection....

Hardcore cyclists would probably prefer to house their 21-speed or mountain mount in a locked panic bunker behind razor wire, guarded by men with no necks–but for most of us that’s not going to happen. The majority of bike riders are battling with limited storage space in which to keep their two-wheeled companions, and that means getting inventive with how and where they stow it. Our suggestion for most apartment dwellers as well as homeowners is to use an indoor bike rack....

At that age, our answers are often simple: doctor, fireman, scientist. Once we get to college or start working, our outlook on the future becomes more complicated. Our goals are less oriented towards purpose but rather towards success. However, to live happily, our views of success should align with a sense of purpose. There are many different kinds of purposes of life to pursue, but it’s essential to find something that brings joy and fulfillment to your life....

And you want to know if the universe is telling you something about a guy. Because while he seems random, he doesn’t feel that way. Nothing about this guy feels random. He’s like no one you’ve ever met or are ever likely to meet again. The universe could be telling you, “Psst! This guy!” It sounds a bit far-fetched, says your old self. Your new self is more open-minded. It’s seen things....

You enjoy the benefits of a relationship while getting to know and connect with his children. However, it can also be difficult if you’ve never been in this type of relationship before. Don’t worry; we’re here to help. Let’s discuss 15 things you need to consider when dating a dad. Keep these tips in mind, and you’ll be able to navigate this tricky situation easily. What Are the Rules for Dating a Man with a Child?...

So what happens when your sex life is suffering? This situation can be upsetting for both partners. It will eventually cause a rift to grow between you if ignored. Maybe you’re wondering how you can bring passion and desire back into your relationship and sex life. If you’re not sure how to be a good lover, read on for fifteen ways you can improve intimacy in your relationship. What Does It Really Mean to Be An Amazing Lover?...

Because, at this point, you’re tired of feeling emotionally drained. You’re ready to stop ruminating, catastrophizing, and wallowing in your own insecurity. It’s time to heal! So today, we’re breaking down what cheating does to a woman’s self-esteem, and then we’ll review 19 tips for overcoming infidelity. Why Am I So Insecure After Being Cheated On? Does cheating make you insecure? Yep, it certainly does. But here’s the other part that some people may find surprising: according to a study published by the National Library of Medicine, insecurity is also more likely to cause infidelity....

GMT Watches in Short GMT watches were made when jet airplanes came into common use, allowing people to move over many time zones extremely quickly. They were initially crafted by Rolex and allowed individuals hopping across hours or days to keep track of what time it was where they were, and where they were going. These watches were elegant simplicity with dual hour hands that could keep wearers mentally in two places at once; avoiding impolite gaffs such as calling home at 3am....

Google Not only a search engine that has become a global phenomenon, Google was actually called “Backrub” at one point. Then, they were going to call it “Googol” as in the number, but a misspelling gave us the company we know today. Boeing William E. Boeing bought a plane for fun, then cracked it playing around in the skies. He went to get replacement parts, but were told they would take months to arrive....

Whether you’re trying to learn more about yourself or you’re looking to add some substance to your conversations, I have taken some great time, and effort and put my thoughts into the most life-pondering questions along with their answers. These deep questions can make you think twice about what you believe and how you live your life. These questions will help you discover new insights about your personality, relationships, and the world around you....

There are so many deep unanswerable questions and mind blowing mysteries in the world, these sort of questions that have been baffling the brightest minds and deep thinkers such as philosophers and scientists for centuries. These most mysterious unanswered questions of all time might just keep you up at night. Though the world is full of unanswered and answerable questions. While science has made some incredible progress, there are still many mysteries and questions out there that we don’t know the answers to....

If only you could find an “Is he the one quiz” that would give you a clear “yes” or “no” answer. Shouldn’t someone get on that — maybe within the next day or so — and send you a link when it’s ready? How are you supposed to be sure he’s husband material without some help from those who’ve been where you are? It turns out there are some tell-tale signs you can look for....

We tend to focus on our negative qualities, letting them overshadow the good traits and behaviors we all possess. The shaming voice in our heads can make us forget who we really are. It’s high time, then, to find positive things to say about yourself. You need some practice to change the way you see your true self. We want to see you celebrating your wins because you have a right to be proud of yourself....

Others cozy up with a list of books long waiting to be read. And some celebrate by dancing the night away. Retirement is a huge milestone that looks different to everyone. But every person who’s about to retire needs to be honored and acknowledged. Whether you’re writing to a coworker or a friend, finding the right message to applaud their professional accomplishments can be quite difficult. To make things easier, we’ve curated 41 different ideas for retirement card messages that you can choose from....

Whether you are a CEO, an office worker, a teacher, a student, or anything in between, the most powerful force you have is your fired-up brain. However, many people find they don’t have the memory, mental clarity, focus, and concentration needed — even after a good night’s sleep — to be at their best. Until recently, it was thought that there was not much to be done about these issues....

Because you’re just not feeling it. Yet you don’t want to hurt this person. It’s not that you don’t think anyone could be happy dating them. In fact, you want them to find a happy relationship with someone. The sooner you set them free, the better for you both. How To Tell Someone You’re Not Interested Nicely You want to know how to tell a girl you’re not interested (or someone of a different gender identity), and you’re at a loss for what to say that will help you part on good terms....

Whatever’s going on between you, though, one of the best ways to deal with it is to write it out. Put your thoughts and feelings into words. Journaling is one way to do this. But writing a letter to your husband, who shares responsibility for your marriage, can get you even closer to a solution. So, where do you begin? How Do I Write An Emotional Letter to My Husband?...

But some days it’s harder to see the beauty through the fog of disappointment and self-doubt. That’s where positive affirmations for adults come in. Affirmations are positive statements you tell yourself every day to remind you of how far you’ve come, what you value most, and what you’re capable of achieving. They can also help you create a mindset for future goals and success. This post focuses on positive affirmations for men....