It’s exciting because you’re embarking on something new, but it’s also frightening because of all the uncertainty that comes with it. There are so many questions we have to ask ourselves before we get into a relationship — namely, “Is this person right for me?” and “Am I ready for this?” But there are also some other questions that go beyond just the immediate concerns about compatibility or timing. These are the questions that get to the heart of who you are as a person and what you want out of life....

She’s so special you’re now practicing proper toilet seat etiquette and canceling plans with the crew. You’re anxious to let her know exactly how you feel — but you’re not exactly the next Wordsworth. So, to help you express exactly how you feel, today, we’re looking at love messages to make her feel special. How These Sweet Words Will Captivate Her People like being seen and feeling appreciated. Sending loving messages will convey your passion, respect, and emotions to your significant other....

It’s true, self-care gets a bad rap in some quarters, especially with its emphasis on the self and its needs. It’s too easy to write off self-care as a luxury enjoyed by the top 10%. “Sure, you go enjoy that massage. I’ll just keep working like a regular person.” What’s not often considered is if self-care is attributed to affluence because wealthier people supposedly have more time for it. Or it could be that financial well-being is associated with self-care because those who make time for self-care are better able to tend to their finances and do what they need to do to earn more....

But sometimes lunch can be as monotonous and uninspiring as work. Same old sandwich. Same old chips. Same old whatever it is he tends to eat every day. Have you ever thought about shaking up your partner’s lunchtime routine with something unexpected? Before sending your husband off with his lunch in hand, why not surprise him with one (or more) of these sweet and flirty notes? With these sweet messages tucked into his lunch box, he’ll be all smiles when he opens it, no matter what kind of day (or sandwich) he’s having....

View in galleryThe leaf vacuum comes in a pair of builds. There’s the mower-style body, that has a traditional push construction. You run it around the yard, hitting the leaf piles, and it will snap up any fallen soldiers and give them a quick mulch. The backpack or portable style looks more like a standard leaf-blower, but comes outfitted with a bag or hose that connects to a receptacle. Leaves are sucked up via the hollow wand, torn up through a quick pass into a small mulcher, and spit into the container....

Howbeit, the fact remains that success in whichever field of life’s endeavor never comes by magic; one must work for it! You must have heard about, known or even been a constant admirer of this business tycoon. Maybe you would love to be like him, or even surpass him in business success. But how far have you gone to find out facts about how he made it this big? In case you’ve never made any effort or you’ve made only little effort towards discovering the secrets behind Aliko Dangote’s success, it’s not too late....

You put your best foot forward, and so do they. Finally, you’ve found your soul mate — someone who meets all of your criteria for the man or woman of your dreams. “We are perfect for each other!” you tell your friends and family in giddy excitement. But as the bloom fades from the new romance, you realize that some of your criteria boxes haven’t been checked. Your perfect partner has pulled a bait and switch or maybe never had the desirable qualities, to begin with....

Not familiar with Heimplanet? I covered the Heimplanet Mavericks tent earlier this month, an inflatable extreme-weather tent capable of sustaining 100mph winds. It’s pricey at $7K to start, but built for the most extreme traveler who wishes to scale mountains and handle just about anything mother nature will throw at them. Heimplanet also produces consumer options, like the Heimplanet Cave Tent we included in our round-up of the best adventure gadgets for rugged campers last year....

Brimah Kamoko, a vibrant boxer known commonly as Bukom Banku and for his controversial ways was woefully defeated by former amateur boxing team captain Bastie Samir at the Bukom Boxing Arena on Saturday, October 21, 2017. Bukom Banku who earlier bragged about defeating the 31-year-old in the third round was brought to his knees in the 7th Round, another punch landed him on the floor, leaving referee, Roger Banner with no option but to end the bout....

The Blackmagic Micro Cinema Camera offers a couple things that has made the GoPro so successful. First, it comes in a small package and it weighs very little. The Micro Cinema weighs in at roughly twice the weight of a GoPro Hero 4 with housing, or 10.65 oz. It’s nearly a 3x3x3-inch cube, so it is a diminutive device compared to the digital film cameras it compares to. Last, it produces high quality footage in a small device....

Restored Cathedral Book Store Instead of allowing this old Gothic cathedral to fall into disrepair, it was purchased by a book seller and restored to its original glory. The Cathedral Book Store of Maastricht, The Netherlands might be the world’s most beautiful book store, featuring the breathtaking contrast of contemporary design with classical architecture. The walls, arches and cathedral ceiling of the original building were maintained, while the new interior bookstore rises from its center....

Photographer Riaad Algarei captures alluring and captivating images from several landscapes around the world. Emphasis is put on the distinct and vibrant colors created by light and different environments. Gaping valleys, breathtaking views and astonishing gorges and rock structures are among the subjects in Algarei’s photo feature. A unique perspective is shown to each landscape by intensifying the actual grandness and massiveness of the subject matter and highlighting the beauty in the composition of colors....

In this drinker’s paradise, this booze-hound’s garden of Eden, you can find any number of dives, but when you want to day drink and enjoy a little fresh air, a roof is the place to wet your whistle. That’s why we tippled until our eyes ran red to bring you the 17 best rooftop bars in Boston and the surrounding area. Atlantic Beer Garden Unlike some of the Bostonian rooftop watering holes, ABG has incredible views of the city and the harbor, letting you soak in a lot of local color....

The design of the Cheval Blanc Randheli is the work of architect Jean-Michel Gathy, who has married a contemporary aesthetic to the traditional palm cabana architecture of the islands. Merging traditional and contemporary design elements can be a challenge, but Gathy succeeded in a structure that is as relaxed and serene as it is progressive in design. The furnishings continue the emphasis on relaxed comfort, as the color schemes and materials are at home in this island setting....

The Drawing Room Chicago Michelin-rated cuisine? Check. Signature cocktails? Check. High design without the attitude? Check and check. The Drawing Room Chicago is a basement bar and lounge with a master mixologist behind the bar and an award-winning chef in the kitchen. Come for a Three Fork Michelin dining experience, stay for the absinthe fountain (pictured above) at the bar. It’s the perfect basement bar starting point. The Drawing Room Chicago | Gallery View in gallery View in gallery View in gallery...

If you want to elevate your casual attire, Chukka boots are the way to go. In other words, a good pair of Chukkas allow you to maintain a sense of style and a comfortable feel. The iconic boot is a worthy addition to any closet. History of Chukka Boots The origin of Chukka boots is somewhat of a mystery. Shoe historians agree Chukkas became popular in India and receive their name from a period of play in a polo match....

It begins with describing the life you want without sparing the details. To create a vision in words, you first need to see one in your mind. And to do that, you need to know exactly what you want to see in every area of your life. The nine steps described below can help you overcome your hesitation and finally articulate a vision that’s 100% yours. What Is a Vision for Life?...

According to a study of friendship and physical intim#cy among U.S. undergraduate students conducted by Lehmiller (2012), about half of participants indicated that they had developed feelings for their FWB partners, while only 17% said they had not. This might be because people have a tendency to de-emphasize potential problems in relationships that are emotionally satisfying at the time – which are more likely encountered when engaging in FWBs than dating or marriage....

The design team at Murmure have created a line of electro-phosphorescent accessories to enhance the night time electronic music festival experience. These glowing pieces add to the cosmic experience of the synthetic music and alter the way the audience enjoys a performance. Among the goodies are glow in the dark glasses, cases, posters and paraphernalia galore. Each neon light contrasts with the darkness of the after hours shows. These innovative products will make a stylish stamp on the electronic music festivals of the summer and beyond....

36-year-old Eva Herzigova has had quite a year. While most models fade into obscurity in their mid-twenties, Miss Herzigova is a venerable part of the fashion industry. In short, she ain’t going anywhere. This 5’11” Czech beauty is even more beautiful today than when her career started 20 years ago. We salute Eva, her career, and the personality she puts into shoots just like this one by Hedi Slimane for Vogue Paris....